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Stressed Out?

By: Asim Ashique
Source: IIIM.info

 

Have a stressful day at work last week? Relax. You’re not alone. 75% of us report that we have at least one day per week where we experience “great stress” and one third have more than two such days each week.

With the advent of modern time saving conveniences like microwave ovens, cellular telephones and e-mail one might have reasonably expected there to be more time for leisure. These things are designed to make our lives easier, right? Quite on the contrary, however, it seems that as time passes we’re all busier. Our lives are more hectic and we’re under more stress.

The concern with stress arises due to the impact that it has on our health. Stress, along with smoking and alcohol consumption, is among the major contributors to disease in our society. An estimated 75-90% of physician visits are due to stress-related illness. Over 10 billion dollars is spent in North America each year to fight the effects of stress.

What is stress? Simply put, stress is caused by a perceived shortage of resources, relative to the need. So if you need $2,000 per month to support yourself and your family, but make only $1,500 per month, then this will be a stressor, or stress trigger. The same principle applies with time, skill, knowledge and other resources. It’s an adaptability issue and the general formula used to represent it is: Stress = Need – Resources.

What is the stress response? The mind-body link is very potent. That is, emotional stress has a very real physical effect on our bodies. The origin of this is in the nervous system and can be seen in the “fight or flight response.”

When Allah (Most High) created our bodies, he built in an emergency response system. To illustrate how this system works imagine that you are sitting alone in a quiet room. If someone walks up behind you and says “boo”, there will be a series of sophisticated, but lightning quick changes in your body designed to prepare you for action. Your pupils will dilate, heart beat and respiration will increase, blood will be preferentially shunted away from the digestive organs and to the muscles; and hormones will be released to provide you with a burst of energy. You are now ready to either fight or run to protect yourself.

The stress response that most of us experience in less threatening situations is very similar. When we experience fear or anxiety in response to everyday stressors -- traffic, work pressures, family obligations and tensions -- the body initiates the same process, only on a smaller scale and often sustained over a longer period of time. And that’s where the problem starts.

A car can be driven hard and at high speeds periodically. It is designed to be able to do that. But if you floored it at each traffic light it wouldn’t last long. The engine would burn out prematurely due to increased wear and tear. Your body is the same way. Chronic or sustained stress, combined with poor coping skills, results in physical changes that increase the wear and tear on the body. Premature illness and death are the result.

What bodily changes occur due to stress? The cascade of physical changes in the body is initiated when a stressor stimulates the sympathetic nervous system (“fight or flight” system) which in turn stimulates the production of stress hormones, including adrenaline and cortisol. Adrenaline is critical to the stress response: it raises blood sugar, increases heart rate and boosts the amount of energy available to your muscles. Cortisol acts to maintain heightened blood pressure and blood sugar.

How can stress cause disease? While cortisol has short-term benefits, such as providing essential bursts of energy during critical periods, scientists have become concerned about the hormone’s long-term effects on our health. Evidence shows that extended exposure to cortisol weakens bones, causes nerve cells in the brain to degenerate or perhaps even die, and compromises the immune system. A suppressed immune system means we are more vulnerable to infection and less able to heal from diseases ranging from small wounds to colds to cancer. Research shows that high blood pressure, anxiety and depression, skin problems, headaches, neck and back pain, insomnia, digestive disorders, ulcers, heart disease and stroke can all be related to chronic stress.

Stress is a huge problem in our society. Job stress alone is estimated to cost American industry $300 billion a year. That does not include the cost of personal stress, nor the “non-financial” costs of poor health in the form of poor quality of life. A simple variable like the number of marriages that suffer due to stress, and the real impact of that suffering, will never be known.

Good news! The exciting news is that while emotional tension is ubiquitous, there are techniques which have been proven effective in managing it. No matter what type of stress we experience, nor the quantity, we can each develop strategies for coping with stress so as to minimize the impact it has on our lives. Part II of Stressed out? will focus on stress management.

Burnout, nervous breakdowns, sleeplessness and other similar phenomena often find their origin in one thing – stress. In the last issue we discussed the prevalence of stress, the large role it plays in the causation of disease in our society as well as its social and financial consequences.

After understanding the seriousness of this problem, the natural question is “How can stress be managed?” For every illness Allah has created he has also created a cure; so as Muslims we believe in taking responsibility for ourselves by seeking solutions to our problems.

Here is a simple ABCDEFG checklist for managing stress.

1) Allahu Akbar! The best source of comfort comes from knowing that Allah is in control of all things. While we can’t always control our environment, we can maintain perspective and control our reaction to life events.

Sheikh Abdul Qaadir Al-Jilani would teach his students to never object to the will of Allah. He emphasized that the believers are most precious to Allah and He is always doing what is best for them, even if on the surface it seems unfavorable or unpleasant. There is tremendous solace in knowing that you’re under Allah’s protection. What happens to you, big and small, is all part of the plan.

Stress and its ultimate clinical manifestations -- anxiety and depression -- are fear-based phenomena. It is the fear of not having the time, money, security or other resources that leads to stress. And the opposite of fear is faith!

2) Breathe. Examine your breathing pattern in the morning. You will find that you breathe deeply and slowly. This is closest to natural breathing. Do the same at the end of the day and you will find your breathing to be short and shallow. As tension builds throughout the day it has a very real effect on our breathing pattern.

Notice that many people breathe with their shoulders as opposed to their diaphragm (abdomen) which is the primary muscle of inspiration. Poor breathing mechanics result in a gradual depletion of oxygen levels, making you more vulnerable to pressure and fatigue as well as postural stress and physical pain.

Take hourly breathing breaks. Spend sixty seconds doing deep diaphragm breathing with your eyes closed. Visualize your body exhaling tension, anger, self-doubt; and inhaling positive energy. Supplement this with daily yoga, Tai Chi or just simple stretching.

3) Chiropractic care. Emotional tension has a very real physical effect. The regular aches and pains that you feel are not normal. They are due to the accumulated effects of spinal stress and poor posture.

Get with the times. The days of skepticism about chiropractic are long gone. If champions like Tiger Woods, Arnold Schwarzenegger, Mike Tyson, Emmitt Smith, Mark McGwire, Evander Holyfield, Barry Bonds and Donovan Bailey attribute part of their success to regular chiropractic care, what could it do for you?

4) Distract and Diffusion. Things can only build if you let them. Don’t dwell on things. Especially things you can’t control. Give yourself permission to let go of it. Distract yourself with fun stuff regularly.

5) Exercise and Eat right. A good workout remains one of the best ways of blowing off steam. For maximum results one should do cardiovascular (aerobic) exercise for at least 30 minutes, 3-6 times per week. The best forms of exercise are swimming, cycling and other activities that don’t impact the joints. Avoid jogging if you have joint disease. There is a safe exercise for all ages and levels of health -- nobody has an excuse. See you at Shapes!

Your food is your fuel. Garbage in, garbage out. The quality of your diet is an important determinant of your resilience. A poor choice of foods can leave you feeling sluggish and less physically able to meet the demands of your day. A mildly dehydrated state can suppress your energy level by 25% -- so get your 8-10 glasses of water daily.

6) Finish it today. Procrastination is one of the foundations of burden-bearing. Putting things off allows them to build and makes a chore out of things that may otherwise be exciting and challenging.

In our hectic environment, adequate time management skills are essential. Be a doer, not a talker. Effective planning, scheduling and goal setting can be invaluable in allowing you to stay ahead of the game.

7) Good people. Most of us would agree that much of our stress comes from other people. In the same way that people can bring us down, they can also bring us up.

Surrounding yourself with people who are positive and encouraging by their nature will make you feel good. Seek out people who possess the qualities you wish to acquire. Avoid people who are toxic. Negative people need to be ditched.

Talking out your issues with a trusted friend, elder, sheikh or professional therapist can be helpful.

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From an Islamic perspective health is viewed as one of the greatest blessings that Allah has bestowed on mankind. It should be noted that the greatest blessing after belief is health, as narrated in the following Hadith:

The final messenger of God, Prophet Muhammad (pbuh) mounted the pulpit, then wept and said, “Ask Allah (swt) for forgiveness and health, for after being granted certainty, one is given nothing better than health.”
Related in Tirmidhi

To help millions of people deal with the stress created by the tough economic times, Quranic Healing is recommending strategies to help people feel better and protect their mental health.

We do believe that having a strong faith is key ingredients for having a balanced mental health.

One recent poll reported that nearly 60 percent of respondents said the current economic situation is a cause of stress in their lives. And one-quarter indicated that anxiety is serious.

“This is a terribly challenging time for many people,” said David L. Shern, Ph.D., president and CEO of Mental Health America. “But there are things people can do to take care of themselves during stressful times such as leaning on the people who care about them and focusing on the positives in life.”

Allah has entrusted us with our bodies for a predestined period of time. He will hold us to account on how we looked after and utilised our bodies and good health. It has been narrated that Prophet Muhammad (pbuh) said: ”No one will be allowed to move from his position on the Day of Judgement until he has been asked how he spent his life, how he used his knowledge, how he earnt and spent his money and in what pursuits he used his health” - Related in Tirmidhi

Here are some simple steps people can take to protect their mental health in their daily life.

Take a problem solving approach:

  • Sit down and list your problems and some possible solutions. Weigh pros and cons, and once you have some possible solutions, break them into manageable chunks. This process not only can produce concrete answers, but offers a sense of organization and control at a time that may feel chaotic and confusing.

Shift your thinking:

  • Review the skills and strengths that have helped you rise to challenges in the past. You can rely on those abilities again now. Try not to blame yourself for matters that may not have been in your control.

Get support:

  • You may feel like you don’t want to worry your loved ones. But chances are they want to help. You can just enjoy each other’s company or, if you’re in a relationship, work with your partner to solve financial problems together instead of isolating yourself and struggling alone.

Focus on positive aspects of your life:

  • Sure you have worries, but you are likely to have a lot to be grateful for. Thinking about those positives-or writing them down-can boost your mood.

Take good care of yourself:

  • Exercising, eating right, getting enough sleep and taking time to relax are essential. You’ll be able to cope better with stress and take care of those who depend on you if you find even a few minutes each day to refuel. Beware of turning to alcohol to relax. It may seem to offer a release but actually puts more stress on your body and can drag down your mood.
  • Watch for helplessness, hopelessness and worthlessness- these states are well-known conditions associated with social withdrawal and giving up. Break the silence, reach out and talk to someone who will listen. If this is not helpful, it is advisable to seek out professional counseling.

Watch for signs of excessive stress:

  • Be aware of irritability, difficulty concentrating, headaches, stomach pain and fatigue. You might also see if you’ve developed some unhealthy behaviors, like repeatedly checking the economic news that mostly feed your fears.

Get professional help if you need it:

  • Some people feel it’s a sign of weakness to see a mental health professional, but it can be a sign of great strength to take the steps necessary to get your life back on track.

Spiritual Strategies for Mental Wellness:

The preservation of this blessing can only be achieved through taking good care of one’s health and taking every measure to maintain and enhance it. With this in mind every Muslim should make sure they undertake all necessary actions which are conducive to the preservation of good health. Healthy living is part and parcel of Islam, introduced with the inception of Islam more than 14 centuries ago. Furthermore, the Quran and the Sunnah outline the teachings that show every Muslim how to protect his health and live life in a state of purity. Numerous examples in Islam instruct its followers to live a healthy life, a selection are summarised below.

Daily prayer
Any health benefits derived from prayer or any other worship (fasting) are secondary in importance. The Salah or Islamic prayer comprises both physical movement and mental concentration. Performed five times a day at specific times of the day, the obligatory prayers provide a good means for the circulation of blood, breathing and general suppleness of joints. Though it is not physically over demanding, we know that anything done moderately and consistently is far better than sudden over-exertion at infrequent periods.

Ablution before Prayer & Ghusl 
Before a Muslim performs their prayers, they must perform the ablution which comprises thorough washing of the hands, mouth, nose, face, arms (up to the elbow) and the feet (up to the ankle). This ritual of self-purification when carried out five-times a day, leaves the worshiper clean, refreshed and ready to face his creator. Muslims are also required to clean themselves with water after urinating or defecating. Another act of worship which also helps to maintain good health is taking a shower, or ghusl. This is compulsory when one is in the state of ritual impurity, and is compulsory at least once a week before attending the weekly Friday prayer.

Diet & Nutrition 
Various verses and texts within Islam promote the eating of healthy wholesome food and eating in moderation. God clearly states in the Quran:

Eat of the good things which We have provided for you. (2:173) Eat of what is lawful and wholesome on the earth.(2:168)

A healthy nutritious diet must also be balanced, in order to maintain the balance that God has established in all things, this is addressed in the Quran when God says:

And He enforced the balance. That you exceed not the bounds; but observe the balance strictly; and fall not short thereof. (55:7–9)

As we know, eating excessively causes harm to our systems. Many aliments are related to uncontrolled eating habits such as, diabetes, vascular diseases, stroke, heart attack etc. It has been said that the ‘stomach is the home of ill health’ and is usually responsible in some way to ill health. Islam teaches us to eat moderately:

Eat and drink, but avoid excess. (20:81)

Over indulgence and wasting of food are further dissuaded in the Hadith of the of the Messenger of God:

‘ No human being has ever filled a container worse than his own stomach. The son of Adam needs no more than a few morsels of food to keep up his strength, doing so he should consider that a third of his stomach is for food, a third for drink and a third for breathing’
Ibn Maja

Fasting 
Fasting during the month of Ramadan from dawn till dusk, is undertaken to seek the pleasure of God and to practise self control and restraint in all aspects of living, with the idea being to continue this state of God consciousness and piety after Ramadan is over. It is an ideal time to remove the impurities and shortcomings in ones life.

‘ O you who believe fasting is prescribed to you as it was prescribed to those before you so that you can learn Taqwa (God consciousness)’

Fasting in Islam is not like crash dieting, it is adequate in calorie intake and involves no malnutrition. All foods are permissible to eat in moderation, once the fast is over. Many processed foods we eat contain chemicals which over-time can be stored by our bodies as toxins within cells. Fasting can assist our body to purge these toxins while also allowing our body and digestive system to rest. Research has indicated that fasting can lower blood sugar levels and cholesterol, suggesting it may be advisable for moderate, stable, non-insulin diabetes, obesity and essential hypertension.

Prohibition of Intoxicants 
Islam strictly forbids indulgence in intoxicants such as alcohol and drugs for good reason. The limited pleasure of such vices causes immense long-term damage to both mind, body and the social fabric of society. Particular schools of thought include smoking within the list of prohibitions because of its harmful affects on the body. It seems that if Muslims adhere to the teachings of Islam, they would automatically lead a healthier lifestyle. God says in the Quran:

Satan’s plan is (but) to excite enmity and hatred between you with intoxicants and gambling and hinder you from the remembrance of Allah and from prayer, will ye not then abstain? (5:90)

The idea of integrating mental health with other aspects of life can guide you in your proposed and desired change. Try to keep your faith, believes, knowledge, hard work and trust in God to become a better person, balanced, rich and healthy in all aspects of life. In Sura #53 Al-Najim , Ayat # 39-42 ,Allah (swt) says ” That man can have nothing but what he strives for; that (the fruit of) his striving will soon come in sight; then will he be rewarded with a reward complete; that to thy lord is the final goal.”

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Dr. Mohamed Elmasry (2002), Spiritual Fitness For Life.
Dr.Brian F. Shaw, Stress Busters- Coping Methods.
Hwaa Irfan, Religion in Mental Health: The Soul Under Pressure (Islam Online.net)
World Islamic Association For Mental Health, WIAMH (net)
Hussein Abul, The Issue of Religiosity in Mental Health: Are we Forgetting The Missing Link? Crescent life. 1-6.
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Is epilepsy caused by the jinn?

Question:
Since epilepsy is caused by jinn, how do we explain the black
woman who came to the Prophet (saaws) asking for him to
invoke Allah for her cure of her illness of epilepsy and coming
uncovered, but there was no mention of jinn possession? Or is
there a mistake in translation and it wasn’t really epilepsy?
Answer:
Praise be to Allaah.
Epilepsy in most cases is caused by the jinn, and in some cases
by some defect in the body, brain or nerves, or mood swings, or
some weakness in the physical structure. All of these may cause
loss of consciousness or unbalanced behaviour. The black
woman’s epilepsy may have been caused by the jinn, but there
was no need to mention the cause, which is why the narrators
only mentioned what needs to be done when epilepsy occurs, for
whatever reason, of making du’aa’ and performing ruqyah, or
bearing it with patience and seeking the reward from Allaah.
Shaykh `Abd al-Kareem al-Khudayr
The hadeeth about the black woman is narrated in Saheeh al-
Bukhaari (5652) and Saheeh Muslim (2576). In some versions of
the hadeeth there is an indication that her epilepsy was caused
by the jinn. For example, in a version narrated by al-Bazzaar,
she said, “I am afraid that the evil one may cause me to become
uncovered.” Al-Haafiz Ibn Hajar said: “It may be understood
from some of the different versions of the hadeeth that what
Umm Zafar was suffering from was the kind of epilepsy caused
by the jinn and not that which results from dysfunction in the
brain.”
Fath al-Baari, hadeeth no. 5652.
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